Why Do We Make Network Marketing So Difficult?

Network Marketing is not as difficult as it may seem or that we make it!  It’s difficult because there are too many so-called experts who are anxious to tell you (or sell you) their newest and proven tecnniques for creating wealth. I do not include Mike Dillard or Mike Klingler in that group. But this belief is exactly the opposite of what you need to be thinking when you build a successful life and business.

You do not want to be like someone else because these people are a dime a dozen. There is always someone telling you that they can make you rich with their system. They are tapping into your desire to have more and more and more and more and more from life. This attitude is exactly the thing that makes you unsuccessful.

With your mindset being to become rich, owning things, doing things that rich people do, and lavish yourself with more things that money can buy, you may find wealth but you will not feel satisfied or complete. You will feel like you are missing something very important in life, and you are!

When you build your business on relationships that have value, when you feel commaradery with people because you come from the same mindset, then whatever you achieve is a blessing!  You will understand what it means to live a life with meaning and purpose, and you will know what it means to have gratitude for the things that money cannot buy as well as what it can. Wealth and riches will mean something much different then.

Yes, Attraction Marketing works, but what do you really want to attract to you. You become the person you associate with, and you become the person you think you are. That means you must have a clear understanding of who you want to be, what you honestly want in life that is NOT associated with income and wealth, and who you want in your life from today forward.

When I asked myself the same questions I just asked you, I learned that I didn’t like what I was pursuing and I didn’t like the people I had in my life at the time. I realized that was not the life I wanted to live. It took a major change in my thinking in order to become the person I wanted to become. I feel good about who I am now and what I want in life. I had been indoctrinated with the belief system I was taught by my associations and mentors. It was then that I found an organization that taught me how to live a better life, one that has meaning and purpose, by developing the characteristics I needed to have when I succeed in life and business.

I have learned how to be happy with what I have now and only want what is a blessing to me and to the people with whom I associate. I want to help people have what they want by sharing what I know about being successful in life and business. I teach people how to dream but in different terms than most leaders in Network Marketing teach.

Network Marketing works because it taps into people’s dreams. They take people’s most precious desires and turn them into dollar signs for themselves. People who have dreams associated with their precious desires think there is only one way to have it.  They think dreams are achieved by making more money – lots more money – when in fact, it isn’t the money that fulfills dreams, it’s developing a relationship with people that give them what they want and then gives us what we want.

It is a different way of thinking. If you think this way, then that means you need to break the chains that created this mistake in thinking. People who are truly happy in life and are wealthy are that way because of the life they created for themselves and their families. Haven’t you noticed that some very wealthy people relate to you like they were common people? They relate to everyone and love everyone. There is no pretense about them because what you see is who they really are, and who they really are is a kind-hearted and likable person. Money has nothing to do with their relationships with you. In fact, I suspect that you think of being like them when you think about being wealthy.

Now the question is whether you are willing to think differently. Are you ready to develop relationships with people because of who they are and not because of your need to make money from them to fulfill your own dreams. People who always think about what they want to obtain will only focus on that, but it takes a major shift to think about another person and what they want. Do you understand what I just said? Are you ready to accept a change in your present thinking?

In my Dale Carnegie Leadership training, I learned that we need to make people feel valued and important to us. When I discovered that simple concept and put it into practice, people around me began to respond to me more positively. I was amazed that it was so easy for me to change my thinking. All I had to do was go back to doing what I used to do before I became so consumed with my business goals and achieving what I wanted. My change in thinking changed the relationships around me drastically.

If you want to know more of what I know, keep tuned in to this site and I will share more of what I’ve learned on this subject…perhaps join my group at Business.Life.Family.  I also post reports like these on my site at http://ildassociated.com. My phone number is available on my profile here at BetterNetworker. I will gladly take a phone call from you if you want to talk more about this subject.

My best wishs to you and your successes in life and business.

Inspiration: Aspect to Succeed in Life

This is an enlightening video. It puts things in perspective for me so I want to share it with you.

I want you to know that I believe in this message. It is amazing the power the mind has and what we have within us when we believe. I know that what we conceive and believe can truly become reality. This has happened to me several times.

The best example I can give is when I went shopping for a car. After I had taken a car for a test drive, I came back and told the dealer that I hated the car. I had already completed the paper work and the sale was basically done. Now I was telling the salesman that I hated the car.

The salesman said, “Okay Judy, let’s quit screwing around.” He told another man to bring out number #!@&*$. Basically, I had already described the car I really wanted when we walked through the car lot together, even though I did not realize the car I was describing was in the shop.

I said I wanted a V6, four door vehicle with power steering, power windows, and anti-lock brakes. I had a variety of things I wanted but I did not mention them all, including the color teal. I had rented a car that and I liked but I did not tell the salesman what car the was because I didn’t think I could afford it.

The salesman knew what I wanted and had the other guy bring it out. It was exactly what I had in my mind, even down to the color. It was a the new Grand Am in the new teal color (that was back in 1994). I can tell you many story just like that one about our thoughts becoming reality. When you envision it in your mind, your actions make it come to pass. So absolutely yes, your dreams can become reality.

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2-I Will Not Be Denied My Destiny, Staying Positive

It is so hard to stay positive when everyone is trying to steal your dreams. Don’t allow them to dissuade you or derail your efforts to succeed. It’s not their dream, it’s yours.You have to do something every day to keep your dream alive, and you need something physical to hold onto.Let me help you with your focus and getting your dream onto the Internet. I am good at this so let me help.

1-Revised, I Will Not Be Denied My Potential

Don’t let people deny you your destiny. They’ve put you in a box and labeled it. They will resist your escaping from the box because they will not know how to interact with you. People can say what they want to, and you should take what they say under advisement, but if you are sure that what you want to do then you need to do it. You have to fulfill your potential and see it through. So what if you have failed in the past? You may fail now, but you have to take the chance and see it through. Let me help you.